You've obviously left out a number of steps in your process, but for an initial question, how did you develop the curve for the staves? I see how you cut them, but I'm interested in how you laid it out.
Yes! there are a few setps that have been left out for obvious reasons. To answer your questions.
Since there are several styles of wooden vessels and a "barrel" happens to be one. There is a percentage factor you can use to determine the stave size.
Stave width should be no greater than 1.28% wider in the middle than at the head. So a stave that is 1.75"w at the head should be 2.25"w in the middle. But the curve must not run the entire length of the stave but rather come from about 1/3 of the way down and be tangent (smooth).
The bildge dia. should never exceed the head dia. by more than 1.2% (of course there is the exception as whisky barrels have less of a bildge).
Heck, just go measure one you like
Bending the staves, when raised only require one head hoop and one bildge hoop to hold it together. The whole lot is put in the steam chamber for 2 hours. You would be very suprised how soft the wood gets after that. You have to be quick to close the staves in though as they cool they become very ridged again. I made a stave puller from steel and threaded rod in my shop but you could do it with those rachet straps they sell at hardware stores. You need to buy a big one though.
With a bit of work it can be done. And the resulting product makes for great conversation in the cellar. I'd be glad to help with advice if you want.
Ron